Tuesday, November 12, 2013

对我上一任的一番话。你只值RM900。To my Ex, you only worth RM900!

这篇,
本不想它存在
但是我被我前任欺负得没有办法
那好
今天一次过把大家得疑问给说出来
很多人或许说,你不应该把这篇文分享出来,这样会让他更生气。
但,怎么担心起他的感受?但我的感受就可以让他任意践踏?
我已经快和他分手三个月了,但依然继续纠缠我。

Hello guys!
In the first place, I did not wan't to write about this.
But he made me no choice by keep harassing me, so I decided to share what is happening between me and my ex.
Maybe some people will say that, you should not share this out, it is not good to do so as he will be get mad and so on. But hello! I do not want to do it, but he made me no choice!
We had beak up for coming 3 months, but in a sudden send me that email.

你们继续读下去就会明白我的感受。
Read on you will understand what have I gone through!

他,曾经是我很爱过的一个人
医学系学生
之前认识他的时候
很喜欢他的说话和表达方式
人也非常的善良和聪明(那时应该是瞎了)

He is once to be a guy that I love him whole heartedly
A medic student.
I was attached with the way he speak and explain things and I felt that he is a very caring and kind person. ( Super Blind)

但他年纪比我小两岁
但那时的他也并我介意我比他年长
反而很喜欢我的成熟
我也觉得他比实际的岁数成熟(瞎了眼X2)

He is two years younger than me and he did not worried about the age and like the mature I used to be.
I felt that he is much more mature than is actual age. (Super Blind x2)

当时我们非常聊得开
之后他展开追求
我们也很自然的在一起了。

We can talk the whole night about everything and feel so right.
Then he confessed to me and we just be together naturally.

我们发展得很愉快和幸福
大家都说我们很般配
他那时也很温柔体贴
我也很想成为一个也让他觉得应以为傲得女朋友
一起努力为这段感情加油

I felt that we are meant to be together, feeling great and happy.
He is once a caring and nice guy that treat me right, our aim is to work hard on this relationship together.

我从毫无烹饪经验的女孩
因为他说他爱吃西餐
就去为他学习西餐和意大利面
看着他吃着开心
也就值得了(瞎了眼X3)
但也很感谢他让我烧了一手好菜

我还有保留我煮给他吃的照片
详情可以看我相册:
https://www.facebook.com/purpletiff/media_set?set=a.10151462454880209.505308.655765208&type=3

I am never a great cook before him!
But after I found out that he likes western food, so I learn to cook and make him happy!
Thank him for that for making me be a great cook now!

I did remain the photos of my cooking for him
Please click to view my album:
https://www.facebook.com/purpletiff/media_set?set=a.10151462454880209.505308.655765208&type=3

之后在一起都快半年了
偶尔他家人会来吉隆坡
但他很刻意的在他家人面前隐瞒我的存在
甚至会去开一个新的FB户口来只加他的家人
让他家人不知道我是他的女友
他说他家人不允许他交女朋友
因为怕影响他的学业
但事实上
我和他一星期只吃一次晚餐
其他时间他都告诉我他要读书 (最好是)
当时我很明白,所以也不烦他
只告诉他要睡之前给我一个晚安讯息就好(瞎了眼X4)
平时就算我主动约他,他会给我一堆理由说是要读书(现在想来,要应付一堆女孩,是会比较忙)
没时间陪我,我也算了,谁要我爱上读医学系的男生
因此我一个人在吉隆坡,周六日空得很,就接了很多网店服装拍摄以填满我的时间。



Then, we are dating for more than six months, sometimes his parents did come to KL for a visit.
But he never wanted to admit that he had a girlfriend and keep hiding. His reason to me is his parents do not allow him to involve in a relationship, because worried that this could possibly ruin his studies.
In fact, we only meet once a week for a dinner. I know that he is busy, so I only wants a goodnight message from him before he goes to bed. Is that too much? Not right! This is what every couple does!
Sometimes, I did asked him out for a dinner. But he always said that he is busy, need to do a lot of revision. (But think it over again, I guess it is quite heavy for him to handle so many admirers from him)
I am alone in this city, to filled up my time, I take up online boutique shooting job.


直到有一次
我有向他提起我想要买一架相机
但应该年尾才会买
要存钱和好朋友去了韩国再买
但他说那不如一起买
他也顺便可以用得到
他也说一起拥有一样东西也很幸福呀
那时真的觉得好甜蜜
就答应了,一人一半的买了下来

There is once I wanted to buy a new camera, but I told him that I will buy end of the year because I might spend a lot during my trip to Korea with my best friend. But he insist to buy together, because he said that he can use it too. He said that we both own a new camera will be very sweet, so we decided each of use pay half of it and own it together.


几个月后
他开始反应异常
异常的冷淡
甚至可以一整天一个讯息都没有
我下午信息的可以半夜才回复
他可以FB按赞别人的照片
但一整天不找我
说他在温习
很多时候约了我,然后又放我鸽子
我和他是从来不曾吵架的
发现到问题我会提出来解决
但很多这些事情加起来
真的不得让我不安

Few months later, he started acting awkward and I had been treated by cold treatment.
He can totally ignore me a day without any SMS. I sent him a sms during noon, he can reply me during midnight. He can likes others photos in Facebook but not interacting with me and claimed that he is revising. Date me many times but in the end cancel the appointment. All these act made me feel really uncomfortable and insecure.

有一次我就把他约出来
把问题打开
我一直问他,你最近还好吗?怎么了?
他从头到尾只说了,没有事,不要想太多
我把以上的问题问他,他也无言以对
还说如果我再这样会给我烦死
??!!??

对了,他说了一个笑话:
他:我只是最近这两个星期才这样啊!
我心里OS:难道发生了两年才告诉你这些问题?

There was once I invited him to have a talk about our problems.
I asked him do you have any problems lately that making you different from you used to be?
He said, nothing happened, don't think too much.
I throw all the question to him, but he never replied. He said if I keep bothering him like that, he will be be very suffering.

He tell a joke in a conversation:
Him: I just acted weird this two weeks!
My heart whispering: Erm, do I need to wait for 2 years and then only tell you the problem?


重点我的语气是温和的
只想把问题解开
毕竟如果有心经营这段感情必须要把问题说开来
但他一直说没事
之后我一边说一边哭(瞎了眼X5)
他还是不说
头也不回的离开了

正常原理
我是女生
我是会生气
也交往后第一次生气
所以之后那几天我都对他很冷淡
性格不是别人把你说得不堪
是你自己把自己弄得不堪

As a girl, if your boyfriend treated you this way, how do you feel?
This is the first time I was angry on him, but this make sense right?
I am concern about this relationship, that is why I need to clear all the doubts in it.
I feel angry and disappointed, hoping to cool down myself.
The truth is how you behaved and act, is not what other people talked bad about you.



我打了10多通电话,但他始终不接
但这样也好
误打误撞把一切都纪录起来

I called him more than 10 times, but he refused to pick up.
He is just trying to avoid and do not want to face the problem and push all the blame on me.
But, there is a good thing he did not pick up, so everything is clearly written here.


连他考试我也不知情
I don't  even know he had an exam!










































读书不是忽然发生的
如果不能应付
那当初为什么来打扰?
一堆借口!

He is a medic student since he chasing me, but if you can't cope it, why disturb me?

说起来也很讽刺
大家都说
你男朋友是医科学生
你生病他一定把你照顾得很好
但事实是,我生病,他一次都不在我身边
只是口头要我多喝水和休息
连我的姐妹都可以特意煮粥照顾我
他?算了(瞎了眼X6)

There was twice I am sick, he is never by my side (Even he is a medic Student)
How hilarious!

最后看到那句,我心寒了起来
一边说爱我,一边可以和我拿回东西

Referring the last phrase, I feel like he is a stranger to me!
Said how much he love me, but at the same time taking back things from me.


之后也觉得算了
别人没风度
就等于RM900认清他
但第二天他竟然发错信息给我

After that, paying him back RM900 to avoid him to keep nagging me, and see the real him, is worth it!
But the next day he sent me a wrong message to his PRESENT GIRLFRIEND!!
What he said in the sms is really so mean!







































那时分手不到三个星期
就有了新欢
那时就决定不把钱还他了
不想我的钱还他来花在别的女人身上
既然他说分手的原因是因为有女朋友就多了个负担要照顾
但怎么他又自打嘴巴
去找了个新欢让自己辛苦呢
好矛盾

We just break up not more than 3 weeks he had a new girl already.
That  time I decided not to return the money to him.
I don't wish to use my money that I returned him to pay for other women.
Since he said that he leave me is because having a girlfriend is too much for him to handle, then why he found another new one after that? So contradicting !


之后
有个女孩发个信息给我
内容如下

Few weeks later, a girl send me a message as bellow.





























































Translating:
Synopsis of the message.
She is one of his ex, but according what he told me, he just have only ONE ex.
She said she is also being told that their relationship cannot be told because his parents do not want him to get involve in relationship. She found out his trick that time in FB, by saying "I miss you", this phrase applies to all, those underground girlfriend will all thought that he is referring to them. This girl once asked him that why me and him breakup, he said I have a third party! Well! This guy is so ....Great!

原来是他其中一个前任
之前他只告诉我他曾经交过一个女朋友
分手原因是女方劈腿
现在真的觉得他说的话值得过滤


分手当天
也立刻马上换掉我和他合照的FB头像
In a Relationship换成Single
好快噢
还以为你忙着准备考试?
只能说能者多劳

On the day of our breakup, he changes his profile photo that previously our photo
In a Relationship changed to Single.
Supper efficient, erm, I thought that you are busying for you exam?
Opps, I forget you are good in multitasking!

还没关系
FB还写一堆状态
我记得有一个是这样写着:
You are Once My Motivation and Inspiration
Now you are my Distraction

After the breakup, he write a lots of things in Facebook like he is so innocent.
I remember one that really hurts me:
You are Once My Motivation and Inspiration
Now you are my Distraction

这有多伤人
一直让大家觉得是我的问题
好!
现在不再帮你隐瞒
是是非非
大家可以从他说的话看出来

That hurts!
He wants to let others thought that it is my problem!
Great!
I won't hide all the things you did to me anymore
You all can see from what he said to me.


以上的我一一都忍下来了
觉得算了!
可能他觉得自己理亏就不找我了
我也过我的安定的生活

I keep all these by myself
For one whole month, he did not find me anymore.
I thought that he knows that he is wrong, so never bother me anymore.


但今天早上
他发了一个邮件给我
我读了让我觉得他怎么可以可怕成这样
我才决定要写这篇文
他不用我摸黑
他自己的行动背叛了他的人格

But yesterday morning, he send me an email!
It really scares me that how this person can be so scary and cold blooded!
So I decided to write this blog once and for all.
I did not talk bad about him, but everything he did reflects what person he is!
Can't even imagine he will be a future doctor.



我一个曾经那么爱过的人
竟然可以对我写出这样的东西
只为了那RM900
心寒吗?
身为男人,你要为RM900那么看不开?
自己把事情复杂化的是你
要这样计算
是不是我在你身上花的心思,为你煮过东西材料的,买礼物的,列一个清单给你?
告诉你,肯定不止RM900!

Someone that I really love send me things like this
Because of the RM900
....
Please, be a man! (As I know you are never was)
The one that make things complicated is you!
The one that wanna break up is you!
Why everything I have to follow your plan?
The effort I wasted for you is lots more than RM900, so I have to bill it to you as well?

还要威胁我骚扰我家人,朋友和同事?(火都来!)
你不觉得你很幼稚?
也同时严重威胁到我自身安全
我是可以报警的。
From the email, he said that he will be keep bothering my family, friends and co-workers.
Really piss me up!
Stop all these childish action please!
You are seriously offended my safety!
I have the rights to make a police report!



女人不是给你这样欺负
你以为你长得好看,读医学系就可以玩弄感情?
我为你做的,身边的朋友都知道
你不懂得珍惜,也没有关系

Women is to be loved, not to be treated like this.
Don't think that you have a good looking face and you can play a relationship like a game!
What I did for you, everyone beside you and me (including you friends) know it well!
You do not know how to appreciate, FINE!


正如你所说,我知道马来西亚不大
但是我想勇敢的分享这篇文章
也当做善事
不要让别的女孩像我一样被伤害

Like what you said in the email, Malaysia is not big!
Definitely AGREE!
So that is why I need to write this blog to avoid other girls hurt by him!

只能说
他演技太好
老实说和他相处的9个月我都觉得他是个好男生
但一分手  可以翻脸不认人
如果真心爱怎么可能可以做得出

His acting is too good!
I felt that he is a good man for the past 9 months!
But after the breakup, he can be so super scary!
If he really loves me before, how could he done all these to me?

Conclusion, Stop all these action or I will bring this to authority!
You made me no choice as I had give you chances to stop all these act!
If you bought something with your girlfriend, please be reminded it is not a business, it is in a relationship. In the first place, you did not said that after we break up you will take back the money.
If I returned the money to you, is because of my kindness, if not returning you, is not something wrong as well.
How about my youth, days and time I spend with you, how I going to claim it back from you! Please think it over and be fair to me as well!
I have the RM900, but I will not return it to you! This is a lesson for you to learn, players lesson!
Thanks!


I don't have to write his name out, as people will know who this GREAT GUY is!

Lastly, Don't mess with a Blogger!



To all of his Exes that had been treated badly, you are welcome to send in your comments to my inbox!

307 comments:

  1. I am sad to hear this and I feel that this guy does not deserve any girl at all. Anyway its good that u break up with him already. About the RM 900, I would suggest u keep the evidence that he disturb u for RM900 and make a police report, thats the best way..

    May you find a better guy soon :)

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  2. Speechless. This fellow really cheap :/

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  3. sell the camera, gv him half the money... then unblur his name =p

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  4. Is this him?
    https://www.facebook.com/andy.lim.1694059?ref=br_rs&fref=browse_search

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  5. well that what is happening to me right now, totally understand how you felt.
    Hope you are ok as ever, see you around.

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  6. omg. omg. omg. take care. no comment for this kind of man.

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  8. 他真的是败类中的败类。
    丢尽男人的尊严了。

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  10. 身为一个男生最丢脸的举动就是跟女生计较一笔小钱.
    我当初花了上千块钱在一个烂桃花,也还不是这样而已.千块一枚烂桃花,很值得,好过被骗多几年.
    就只能说一句,男人败类全天下,好男人皆难寻啊.

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  11. 0.0 still got this kind of ppl in the world oh maigad. stay strong!!

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  12. First of all, feel sad after heard ur stories..secondly, dont feel sad with having this kind of jerk..thirdly, i would like to reveal his fb profile here :D https://www.facebook.com/AndyLim90?fref=ts

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    1. Nice job, by converting the messages number there.
      Cheers~

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    2. Haha, he closed his facebook. shame!!

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    3. aiya.. thought of looking for this "man" profile..

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  13. 真是贱人一个,丢脸
    Tiffany,祝你找到更好的 ^^

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  14. OMG!! 真的是新品种的衣冠群兽!你又太仁慈了,怎么不公开"它"呢?

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  15. 好女生都不會被珍惜,女生要堅強啦。下一個會更好。加油!要讓他後悔,你要活得更好。

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  16. 真的好丢脸。我发现我跟mm一样,都有过这样的lapsap ex。只是差别在于他追回他的ex然后也不打算跟我说分手的那种不负责任的人!不过只有他欠我$$啦! 说到camera,我的backup battery明明在他桌子抽屉,可是他偏偏不还我不知道为什么!真是的!mm你要加油,我是站在你这边的!有些lapsap就是这样,长得好看可是却...

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  17. 加油。。。
    如果是我,我雙倍還他。換完硬幣,叫他慢慢算

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  18. 不是男人 太CHEAP了!CHEAP到!!!!!

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  19. 加油吧你 别为这种男生难过.. 这种禽兽 我想 每个男生见一次打一次的吧.. 在我的生活里 就有一个这样的男生了.. 你会有更好的另一半的 ^^

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  20. 男生喜欢用眼去爱,女生喜欢用耳;所以男生甜言蜜语,女生化妆;
    if i were you, i would probably change RM900 into coins and give it to him to end this endless story. Just a suggestion.

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  21. hi, mayb e you rmb me or maybe you not... but i have to said...男人有很多种,男孩也有很多种~
    加油吧。我是一直暗地里隐瞒着对你表现男人一面的一个人。祝你开心。:)

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  22. 不希望你把900给他
    不是数目问题, 是不想要给他得逞!
    就是不要给贱男得逞!
    最好他搞大事件让更多人懂他的贱!

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  23. https://www.facebook.com/AndyLim90

    This is your bf?

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  24. lesson learn for all of us
    be careful in relationship :)
    nice sharing
    be strong

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  25. 加油 tiffany 如果真的骚扰你 不要客气的报警。。。我真的很想看看他真人是怎样的 可以做到这么无耻 真悲哀

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  26. He has no right to claim back the money from you. And i believe NO AUTHORITY will assist him in this to claim anything from you as you have no contract with him regarding buying the camera unless you did sign anything.

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  27. FYI you did write his name.. LOL andy lim,

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  28. lol just write this moron's name out

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  29. 奉劝你去报警,写一个report说他威胁你(一般report是备案的,kes ragut ),而且你有这么多的print screen ,还是英文,哈哈恭喜他了,等警察局print了report给你,记得mail回一封给他,告诉他,请不要再骚扰我,不然我就请求警方展开调查,他再回复你一些侮辱,威胁。。。。再print screen ,print便便在到警察局报警,记得说他对你造成的心灵伤害。。。失眠,很伤心,很看不开等,100%开fail调查,我看他不用当医生了,肯定中terminate.就让他提早毕业吧,我不想马来西亚有这个神科医生。

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    1. 马来西亚有这种医生可能也很危险。

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  30. You should just leave his name there and not censored it... This kind of TRUTH should be SET FREE! ^^ I sure dun wan anyone of my family member to be near this kind of doctor... who knows, maybe even when patient visit him can also become his gf...

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    1. totally agree.. all sorts of criminal offender shall be revealed to public for awareness..

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  31. Your Ex-Boyfriend has deleted his account (y) LOL

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  32. Yup, he deleted or deactivated his account. Coward.

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  34. tell him no money jiu dun pattern pattern more than badminton.. if anything happen.. we are here to support you.. Stay strong =D

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  35. Girl,u r the best... This kind of ppl dont consider as a man which only consider money after breaking up...U have done a good job

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  36. For me, Pls do not mind he is definitely a Bad person, but there is ur fault also. How u can trust a person in few months. But I can understand, some ppl have certain crizma. But if I am on ur place I shall return this amount to him in a way that he shall remember it. I shall go to his family along with some friends and gave this amount in their hands in front of eye wittnesses and on a movie recording along with this blog printed copy, and let them show the actual picture of their son. And after this shall post that video by blurring my face on youtube. But Dear pls do not trust ppl so easily, especially a man. I am also a man but never have a GF and even do not want to have bcz it is serious. But do not take my words otherwise, I am a normal person.... hahaha..... But pls teach him a lessson, it is not just enough. This is my one sided opinion as i ll come to know this story through u, only.

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  37. It's time to find this Andy Boy :-)
    Andy, where areeeeeeee yoouuuuuuuuuu ~~~

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  38. 加油,支持妳!!那個賤男人分明就是可以去吃屎了!根本就不值得有女朋友!!!

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  39. Change the RM900 into coins... then only give it back to him...
    Anyway... good job...
    Hope you find someone worth your time in the near future...
    All the best...

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  40. 没听过那么烂的男生..加油吧

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  41. dear Tiffany,
    my opinion is your should let people know who is this guy. so people can avoid this guy and......he would never ever get a new girlfriend! (evil smile=])

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  42. Cheapsake.. WTH.. Shame on you Andy!!

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  44. 加油!! 这种败类不死也没用

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  45. People, there is no need to harass this Andy person or further insulting him on any kind of medium or platform. Do not get me wrong though, I am not siding with him by even the slightest bit and spreading this kind of news/msg is good, to inform any other girls who might be his next victim. But all and all, in the end, Andy is still a human being, and condemning him will not make us any better than him. Good work Tif, and be more careful in the future. Ppl, be kind to each other.

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  46. This coward dun have the balls the show his face to the world..Doctor??Future doctor my foot la..Ask him go eat goat shit la..This kind of person doesnt even the worth time to be loved..Haiz..><..Sorry Tiffany..I feel so bad for u tat he treated u like a toy..This kind of person is a more than a worthless pest!Its true that woman are to be loved and take care of but not this kind of stupid game!!This man really pissed me off rite!!Dun let me meet him outside!Im sure will kill him for u,Tiffany as a revenge of his act..Damn!!Malaysia is small..But u wont hide long as well!!Stay strong ya,Tiffany...Dun think about this jerk anymore..Its not worth ur time or even the whole world to be mad of..I detest this kind of person most..Acting 9months,then suddenly changed into a badass character..ANDY LIM,U BETTER LISTEN CAREFULL,I DUN NOE WHO ARE U,BUT I WILL FIND U AND KILL U FOR THE SAKE OF THE WOMAN!!CURSE YOU!!!

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    2. OOhhh i see what u did there too xenon @@ .. so i m expecting u to find him and kill him .. dun be the same person as per-described by urself - Dun haf the balls to do shit , but got the pussy to say things out loud (y) just saying, so u're now pussying for ur big talk, or , i don't know , perhaps, balling up to find him ? LOL

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    3. Waka Hamida..I dare u try to guts me..

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    4. Interesting..So wat did u see wat i did..Pffftttt..Gt the balls to say ppl but dun have a shitty evidence wat i did..Crap talk...Waka Hamida,before u observe some1 take care of urself 1st~

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  47. Dear tifanny, this kind of guy is really jerk and bastard of the world.. say study medic but i think he study shit lah..if he become doctor, he sure treated people died...why u not upload his photo to let us see his real jerk face!!! if i saw him on the street, i sure used rotten eggs throw at him... the fu**k guy should be black list by public..

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  48. I met this kind of scumbag too. He was my ex. Black mail me too and the day we turn single we met in a club at the night he asked another bitch to get me back. And that bitch come right off sitting his thigh to me and say we're actually in love why turning up like this. FUCKING BITCH AND FUCKING MAN. Eww!!

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  49. show us who is that....to stop the victims increasing

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  50. OMG.. what an asshole. You said he's a medic student studying medical? well, I think he's the one who should be study on about, a brainless, heartless, jerk / psychopath / biggestjerkoftheworld / bastard asshole.
    Good for you Tiffany for writing this post, justice will be served. =)

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  51. wat his full name ? he study where? which year student? since he wan make it big issue let we help him ... let his parent knoe how shameful his son is

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  52. Same happened to me only different is I'm a guy. Ask some money using ridiculous reason. Block and deleted me from facebook and post multiple nonsense as if I'm a jerk. Never knew until mutual friend can't stand it anymore and snow me all the posts. Not just one but a few mutual friend called me up to clarify the rubbish she wrote. Lucky enough my friends know me very well and trust I'm not that kinda people. But what her friends think of me then it's out of my control. Anyway time will heal anything. I'm happy to say that now I'm with the right one and have married. Good blessed all these losers.

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  53. First, in terms of contract law, there is no intention to be legally bound in the first place.
    Although it is arguable that you both share the same economical consideration in purchasing the camera, the so-called "rightfully-his-property" do not exist. It is equally shared and after the break-up, the ownership of an item depends on both parties. Still, it is not "his" property.
    Even if he decides to use the "authority", they can't do anything to you, and this is where it all gets interesting.

    Second, it is not advisable for you to reveal his name. That would cause you a liability for defamation. What you can do is to lodge a report against him for assault and harassment. That will definitely a kick back in his ass. Don't forget to lodge a psychiatric injury report as well if necessary, medical report needed in legal/official case though. Oh yeah, don't forget to e-mail it to him, his family members or maybe; just maybe the admins of his university. That's if you want to "do the tango" with him.

    Lastly, his grammar proficiency is really really "good" for a medical student. There are a few language proficiency class that he can actually take. We do not want any doctors that risks his patient's life on the operating theater do we.

    Just my two cents though :)
    Stay strong btw, though I do not know you

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  54. 那個男的好聽就叫醫生,難聽一句就是小孩子脾氣,不成熟的小孩子。。
    連900塊錢也要跟你拿回,什麼爛男人來的啊。。

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  55. 我以前也是中招过...买一粒千多块的电话给男朋友...过后发现原来买电话给他之前已经劈腿了...还死不承认
    分手时我要拿回那个电话...不过他答应还钱给我...最后还说一大堆理由的就是不要还钱

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  57. 虽然我没完整的 看完 (很晚了@_@)
    我的意见是
    我相信他是相当有吸引力的男生 他的世界充满着诱惑
    你答应了他 一些要求 但是我相信你咽不下这口气所以你才决定 反口
    既然你们已经分手了 爱情已不复存在 财产能追究的只有法律
    那部相机(我相信主人应该是两个人) 你告诉他你没钱付 我建议拿去拍卖 分得的钱 半数给回他 我相信分不到900
    这样他也得不偿失 你也出了你的气   

    题外话: 常常我们说没有了爱情 ,就只有金钱可言, 只要哪一方拿不到 或者 不去拿 , 都会被别人说 为什么那么蠢 ,如果要拿 就以正确的方式 ,如果不是 我们和他们没什么两样。 

    这是我的片面之词 完整的画面 只有你们自己两个人才知道。 希望你尽早脱离 追寻你的未来 不要因为过去 忽略了更好的生活等待着你 。  

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  58. - Free food , do what ever u want with this info
    https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=348991098531210&set=a.158711127559209.35347.101884036575252&type=1&theater

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    1. This should be the right ah boy lim, 9months relationship + 3months after broke up = 12months, the picture was posted roughly about this timing in 2012

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  60. Medical student? U tell him, ur course cost RM300k, now only RM900, why you cant let go? LOL

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  61. If i was you, i wil ask him to pay me back , n chuck the camera on the stupid jerk face.

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  62. what a stupid man! a cute and nice girl is in-front of u but u don't know how to appreciate it!

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  63. sorry to hear that you met this kind of creep
    for a man
    rm900 also wanted to count with a lady
    cheap and above all class-less
    well
    tiffany
    u would meet someone better later on in ur life
    as for this doctor wanna be
    he is a disgrace

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  64. This guy is a fucking tool.. Chin up sweetie. You can do way better.

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  65. 叫他換名啦
    放Andy
    下衰劉德華

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  66. For such guy give him 1 cent already consider more, better keep the money for yourself and don't reply him a all...nothing much he can do since he such "clever" to protect himself. God bless him.

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  67. 小姐,那900就還給它,免得一直受這些賤人不必要的騷擾,而且就算報警我相信我國的警察也不會去處理這些感情糾紛,網絡力量都可以讓它丟臉到家了,900塊算起來也算值得rf
    ps: 我可以借你玩相機哦^^

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  68. Give you a big like!
    How old is he? Whr he study? & KL which area?

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  69. how come this guys is student but his atitude like low educated ....
    really useless......DAMN....
    GIRL....stay strong ...

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  70. When reading your blog, it reminds me of my own situation..mine is worse as I'm married..i left home because my husband is always cold towards me, and behaving suspiciously and msging tonnes of girls on Line & Wechat..(these 2 apps are dangerous when wrongly used!), i gave him choice to let go those flirting with girl habit or me..he refused to choose me..and after i left home for 6 weeks, i checked that he was already calling other girl..i called that girl, only to know that my husband told her he is single, broke up with gf a year ago and the gf was always controlling him (he meant me)..he was flirting/courting this girl for a month when I'm away..it's really sad..when we were dating, we bought a DSLR (i paid more) and he was using it with other girl...just like your case..i'm still trying to get back my life, and just like you i love my husband a lot..9 years relatioship..so u be strong girl...

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  71. 我的意见:
    在爱情里没有谁对不起谁,只是谁不爱谁罢了。我是过来人,遭遇也不比你差,可能还比你更糟。你现在的心情可能只是心痛,但我以往是心酸,而不是心痛。我可以体会你现在的心情。我祝你早日找到一个属于你跟你的另一半一样想法的爱情,那是最好的爱情。 XD

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  72. Scumbag...somemore i same surname with this guy,i feel ashamed!!!!!!

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  73. I'm sorry that you met such an immature guy to react like this for RM900.
    The relationship is already over yet he still clinging on his so-called money.
    Not sure whether I should feel bad for this guy or not.
    Put that aside, although I don't know you but I just gonna say that I'm proud of what you have done. =)
    You done great.
    Just hope that this is actually the end.
    There are a lot of really nice guys out there.
    Have faith in yourselves, you will meet one who will treat you wholeheartedly.
    All the best ya!

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  74. hi tiffany! 如果你可以潇洒一点的话。。 在他面前把Camera 丢烂它!

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  75. wow..is a super long stories..any way..glad you have known this guy earlier before thing got worsen ... enjoy your single life..cheer

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  76. 爱情归爱情, 数目要分明, 尤其遇到这种小男人, 一角钱在他眼中可能变成牛车轮那么大!

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  77. This girl kinda sweet.. that doc just got a blind eye... Come on girl... cheer up!! just continue ur life with ur own way...

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  78. Hi Tiff,

    No intention to intrude someone's privacy, but I wouldn't wana end up with doctors of this kind. It's a patient's safety we are talking about. Hope it would be fine on your side to provide some info of "this" doc.

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  79. You did a good job to post dis. I can understand your feeling right now due to previously I also been foolish by a guy which also in professional line --> Lawyer!! Funny right?? Who wonder all these bastard who study or work in high class career would treat girl like this?! I think that time I also blind & no brain as you. Anyway, just to say you are deserve for better guy. 加油!!

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  80. god thats terrible what he did on you >.< shame on him .. he supposed to be mature than this.. i hope you'll fine the happiness you deserve :D

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  81. 名誉上是位医生,可是实际上是一位烂学生及小人贱人。。。。。 鄙视他。。。。

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  82. i dont mind to sponsor u rm900 coins if u need it. so u can use it 1 by 1 throw on his "nice good doc" face :)

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  83. i can guess from the screenshots that his name is ANDY LIM :P

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  84. As I read your article, i found that ex of yours is a total disgrace of all man. Do cheer up, enjoy life and never be treated like this from another man.

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  85. Because of him, you will find the better one in future! Be happy

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  86. 如果是我,叫他还rm900,把相机砸还给他!自己买一个新的呗~无拖无欠 :D anyway,经一事,长一智! U sure can fnd a better guy

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  87. Omg... I really feel u. Coz I also one of the victim like this before with my ex. He brokeupwith me reason is he too busy with working and can't be with me, and is was 3years relation. And guess what... he want me to return all the cash that use to spend on me such as Dinner and birthday present.. how sucks is that. But I didn't do so,coz is stupid. I direct went to his house and yell Yvette whole neighbneighbourhood telling them his behavior, then only he really leave me alone..

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  88. Is this him?
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/avatmanga/

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  89. 好看过 On Call 36 小时 1和2 (y)

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  90. 有些东西,就算了,如果为了九百元,毕竟我相信一段感情的破裂,不是一个人的错。双方都有责任,对吗?也顺便想想那些曾经喜欢过你的有被你无情拒绝的男生。呵呵。

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  91. not worth paid so much effort to this guy.
    Support You.

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  92. Camera 在他眼前丢烂然後900就丟給他,然後走掉不要看他!!!這種的(男屁孩)原來還沒絕種哦!!??要不要也算牽手費,吃飯費,走路費好啦????zzz

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  94. 我们一起把ANDY LIM 这个Pk的 兰行为 share 出去!!!!! Tiffany Theng, 如果他还再disturb你, 一定不可一姑息哦!!!!!

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    1. 問題是就這樣給他,只會讓他得寸進尺。
      就看他怎樣對Tiffany就知道了。
      一個可以把自己的過錯完全怪于別人的人,
      是非常的沒道德和自我意識。
      雖然Tiffany公開這件事是有錯,
      可是也並非他本人的意思。
      一個人受到威脅了,自然後作出自我保護。
      再說,我也少少有接觸一點法律。
      就這件事,Tifanny贏面也不少。
      因為當時他們是情侶,
      所以不管雙方誰付出比較多,
      分開了,是不能夠討回的。
      然後法官也會看人的表現和需求,
      就現在這樣看,男方如果得到rm900,
      他的得益率很高,女的反而吃虧。
      所以法官會判女方的無罪。
      所以到頭來,如果那男生自己告她,
      吃虧的都可能是男方自己。

      我只是給建議,無心之言請都多包涵 >.<

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  96. 加油!的确,在遇到对的人前,往往都会先遇到一堆贱人~
    我的前任就是其中一个,在一起时他一直告诉我他的前任有多拜金,多厉害花他的钱,叫他买了多少名牌等等。那时我也是瞎了眼,以为对方真的是一个物质女。到了后来他劈腿我们分手后,他的前度也是辗转得知了我的遭遇,才在inbox告诉我,原来他所谓的对方厉害花他的钱,都是一些去餐厅吃饭,去约会的费用,而他所谓买给对方的名牌则是他们在一起六年,他送给女方的生日礼物,情人节礼物等等。而重点是,分手后女方听到了这些谣言,已经悉数把礼物全都还给他了!可是他竟然一方面叫女方把礼物收回,说当作是一个纪念,一方面对别人抹黑她!当时真的听得我目瞪口呆,心里直说还好,在一起时我们并没有去什么高级餐厅约会,礼物方面我也只收过他一枚手表,而那枚手表在我得悉他劈腿后已经立刻砸在他身上了。可是过后他没有也是这样到处抹黑我,我也不得而知了。在一起是我们并不是只是接受而已,送出的礼物,心意也不少,怎么就不见他提起?!

    借由这个分享,希望姐妹们都能学乖,分手后,真的没有什么东西值得留恋的。就算是还在一起时,也尽量不要涉及财务的瓜葛,尤其是对小气的‘男人’,很多东西不是我们买不起,只是由男友送,就是特别的不一样~ 可是在他们的心里并不是这样想。搞不好还得了个‘拜金女’的称号。

    Tiffany,说了那么多,我的建议是像上面calv N所说的,不必还他900块(毕竟现在一定不值当初那个价钱),而是把相机拿去卖掉,得回来的钱再一人一半分掉。毕竟气也出了,也省得落得一个欠他钱的话柄。而你也不会看到相机就想起这贱人做的恶心的事~

    加油!更好的在前面等着你呢!

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    1. 对!对!一方面还在ex面前保留风度,度量,另一方面去抹黑别人! 真的有这种人的~ 太恶心了!!

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    2. 最让我觉得无语的是,跟她的ex聊开后,她问我可不可以给她看看他送我的手表的样子,我虽然觉得奇怪可是还是把照片send给她看。之后她告诉我,那枚手表是他要求复合时,买来要送给女生的。女生拒收后,他竟然拿来当情人节礼物送给我!真是够烂啊这个人!!!

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  98. 这种人应该不用给他脸!!!直接公布他的照片让大家知道!!!!!!!!
    若真得还钱,把钱rm900统统变成零钱往他脸上撒去!!!!真气人!!!

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  99. 男人的耻辱!!!无视他吧。。。枉费他家人给他读那么多书。。。全部白读的!!!加油吧。。。不要为一个人而烦恼,那只是过客~All the best amd smile forever ^_<

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  100. Why hide his face? show his face so that other girls will not be cheated as well

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  101. There is no point in returning the RM900.00 to him. Shut him off completely. You will move on from this and mend that broken heart of yours. Heartbroken now, nevermind. Two years down the road when you look back at the present time now, you'd think "that was nothing". If you can change for him, you can change again, change for the better.


    Elton
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    From his replies, I can tell that he wants self pity and attention and you are NOT to give him so. Doing so will only make him feel superior and you'd be in a loop.

    You will find a guy that will treat you better than who you are and treasure you for the rest of your lifetime. Wait, just wait :)

    Elton

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  102. 遇到Mr Right 之前,总是要先来一场世纪贱男热身赛。

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  104. O.O 地球有70亿人口...他应该是里面稀有品种...

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  105. 把相机砸了 分一半给他...

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  106. 加油吧~只是一个过客,分手了更好,你一定值得更好的 =D


    祝未来你可以遇到更好,更爱你的<3

    Just follow you =D

    http://snowman1314.blogspot.com

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  107. Forget the past. He is a shame of all the male's. By right he should transformed to become a Shemale. I believe that you will meet a better one in future. Sincerely wish you all the best.

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  108. thanks for the translating...
    hope you great in life...

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  109. You should have un-mosaic the face.
    Girl ! You have win the internet !
    There's more better guys all-over ,


    PS: your cookery looked so tasty, [ 可以当好媳妇了! ]
    Cheer up, girl !

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  110. No offence but when there is a great and kind boy that is willing to sacrifice and love you wholeheartedly , you them reject him due to his size and look. When you guys get cheated, you guys rage like nobody's business. Only if you girls gave them A chance, you might be in seven heaven right now. just saying~

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  111. My ex-bf is about this type too, but my current bf - if it were to compare - my ex-bf is a nonsense; tomorrow will always be better =)

    ~wendy

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  113. 你好=)我很佩服你的勇气..你把他公开是对的选择..女生啊~要学会保护自己...不过如果我是你,我会做得更绝...我会挖出他的新女友是谁,然后inbox给那个女生,告诉他一切(然后那女生要不要继续就随便他了)

    至少,我可以让他们吵架什么我也爽=)这是你劈腿的代价...那个900也休想我还回去..如楼上的意见,其实你可以去报警,搞大事情让他提早“毕业”,毕竟没医德的医生能少一个是一个=)

    希望你能够早日找到属于自己的mr.right =)

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  114. Put recycle papers and then chuck it into an envelope. Meet him up with the camera. Throw the camera on the floor *purposely as hard as you can, better spoil it* and then throw him the envelope. And leave him there. NOBODY CARES

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  115. Girl, I'm glad that you broke up with him. You did the right choice and choose the right things to do. I couldn't accept that he want you to pay him back. Why not give the camera back to him? You don't deserve to pay that AT ALL!!!

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  116. 以前的我也曾经被人说过花心,不过凡事都要有个底线。
    看了你的文章,只想对他说
    Fuck
    男人的耻辱。

    Kim
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  117. 这种男人老天会收了他.
    早点看清是好事,不然事情严重了才来后悔就没用了~
    就当作长见识吧~
    下一个会更好~
    加油哦~^^

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  118. 下午好。我看了你的长文后,觉得很遗憾,居然还有这样的男人。RM900是不小的数目但是这样讨债方式太过头了。建议你把它还了,或卖了相机还他钱。因为警察也不太理这些事情。遇人不淑没关系,每个人都会有这样的遭遇。愿你提早脱离痛苦。加油。。。

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  119. 事情已发生也过去,别让这件事纠缠着你更别让你有阴影。往前看,过的比之前更好。人一生中总会遇到几个烂人。。加油!

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  120. Well Tiffany,

    I'll be honest here. I myself am a scumbag too but a different type. I never ask back anything from anyone. So from a scumbag point of view, I can tell you, just totally ignore such a person. There is nothing he can do to harm you at all. If you are worried that he might disturb the peace between you and your family/friends/colleague, you can file a harrastment report with the police.

    People like him might take a long time to change but don't bother about it. If he so much touch your personal life with threats, seriously talk to your parents about. They will always side you no matter what. And if he knows that you seek help from your parents, I don't think he has the guts to do anything further. But if he really insist on that stupid RM900, just give him half and say this is from your own kindness, take it or leave it... but of course I won't recommend you do that, it's just a last resort lol...

    I'd hurt my own precious "someone" and I know for the rest of my life I'll always be guilty. I just wish there was another chance for me heh. Anyways I feel your pain, Tiffany, but from a different point of standing. What I wish to convey is not only to you but to all the readers here...

    To Girls - Love is powerful and almighty like how our Lord Creator (some of you might refer as God) loves us and so do our parents. Keep your love sacred so that people can see how seriously you take your issues up. There is no rush in love. The only rush is in your mind. Get to know that person well enough.

    To Guys - Seriously, don't be a scumbag. You don't want to venture into that path. It sticks with you forever no matter how you changed. Although you might meet new people in your life who knows nothing about your past, and even if you stay as a good guy, the label "Scumbag" will never be taken off from your life unless one day you truely forgiven yourself.

    Well these are my 2 cents, I hope it can benefit the author, Tiffany, and the readers

    ~Lucian Leonhart

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    1. Yeah, you'r right!
      In addition - To girls: There's no rush in love. Do what your mind tells but not your heart.

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  121. To that guy: EH BRO, Y U WAN LIKE THAT?? I'M A GUY U'RE A GUY U ADA NICE, GOOD, CARING, PRETTY GF TAK HAPPY? I OSO TAK ADA LEH? Y U INI KIND DOCTOR SO DY? IN THE END U MAI ONLY ADA SATU WIFE SAHAJA? PLS BRO TOO MUCH LEG ON TOO MUCH SHIPS WILL MAKE U TUKAR TO CACAT!

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  122. wtf...you should post his name, fb & ic out to let the world know He is a fucking scammer..

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  123. wow. such impressive post~ i really feel shame on this bastard! useless feller, brainless and not gentleman. pardon me to say, i wish he could just bang by a car in a sudden where he should get his pay from fooling alot of girls. mother fucker

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  124. 不做都做了,建议你公开他的照片,让女生们知道他的真面目。这样不只可以保护女生们,还可避免成为同样的受害者。

    maybe reveal his true identity or his picture is better so that it can be a warning to the other girls not to become his victims.

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  125. Seriously he doesn't look like a future doctor, he looks like a sissy == boys wear colour lens, duhhhhhh stay strong !

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  126. 哇,好cheap的男生。。。。这样也要计较哦。。

    但庆幸你早日离开,明天的你肯定会找到一个更好的

    GOD BLESS YOU!!加油吧。。。。

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  127. 虽然我有在想很多烂方法弄回他,可是还是不要跟他一样幼稚吧,九百块别还他了,相机还他,因为是不好的回忆,大方点,送他!钱可以再赚,相机可以再卖,小人就别惹了,免得弄脏自己,加油!

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  128. andy right? somewhere in your msg you did not cover la.......which tmn he stays?

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  129. 别想太多,现在这种人太多了,我和莫人3年分开,他和我拿回那3年里送我的生日礼物,cheap 到曝

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  130. 加油,支持你,别让那败类得逞,真是人渣

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  131. 你那么漂亮~~~祝福你找到更好的~~~XD

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  132. i know who is this guy. Andy Lim right? he added my fb also. He seem like emo everyday LOL
    he now deactive his own fb...

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  133. if its shared,that meansu paid ur share in it. if he hold the camera now den instead he should be paying u de other half right?

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  134. 很多时候就是遇到了不对 的人。
    加油哦 ! 证明给他看没有他又怎样 你一样过得很好(更好) 他就值RM900,连一直名牌狗狗都不如啊。

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  135. Don't even bother to recognise him as an EX, period.

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  136. 多多兰耶,你说人家跟你计较,其实你自己也何尝不是在计较,diu 做作的女人

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  137. dear tiffany, i feel so sorry for you! i pray that you will have good luck and will find good man to be your partner! jia you!! you are so tough :))) i hope this jerk will disappear from your life forever

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  139. You deserve someone better :)

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  140. please report to the police ya...

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  141. 加油啦!这种人我也见过,还是我的同事。可是这位是未来医生,我想如果他当上医生千万别去看他否则必死无疑。

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  142. Report it!.That's why..never trust a guy so easily ^^

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  143. cheer up!is not worth to be sad about this kind of guy, you deserve better

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  144. I don't know you, but my friend shared your post link so I got here and read the entire post. Your ex is extremely cheap, you're so brave to post all the things out. You will find a better one in your future. Gah Yao!!!!!!!!!!!

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  145. 那种男人 活在这世上就是浪费 浪费地球资源 社会败类

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  146. Expose his identity.no need to protect dis kinda screwed up person!

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  147. Scary guy. Try choose moderate bf as long he's caring.
    I'm just saying :D

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  148. Hhaa..
    Nice one bro..
    Anw according to the law..
    u have the right not to give back the money that u owe him but he must give back all the money u spend for him. Because he is the one who ask for the break up..
    If u r the one who ask for the break up, then u have to paid him everything that u owe him.

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  149. u shall put his face on publicity...hahaha! well , I've beeen meet many bad guys in my history...but suddenly i feel myself so lucky dat never met de guy like dis...*touch wood ....really shame on him.....if i was u..i will reply him..' it's ok...i bliv ppl will noe whose de one are shame...and so on..time can proof everythin n every human personality...so..do watever u like..jus go on~~~ between, u are so funny and humorous..hahhahaa.. '
    and den ignore dis guy forever n ever..........

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  150. Well, he will not be a doctor, if he never passes the exams and all the requirements. BTW, rather than he kept disturbing you, why not do what you suggested to him earlier, where he pays you back RM900, and you sell him the camera?

    Since that guy will die without having the RM900 back, and you don't have to receive his threatening messages anymore.

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  151. = = 公开他的资料啊? why still censored him to protect him?

    according to the situation. u do not need to give him any money. and he cant do anythg using "law" against u.. lol

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  152. show that guy's face to everyone so that others girl can alert......

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  153. 所谓活到老,学到老。我人身的四分之一都过去了,都没成拍拖过。我是男的,也许我会害怕接触漂亮的女生,因为没有充分的安全感。我没正对谁啦,个人意见而已。你的过去,也许是个很好的知识,能让你走的更远,更高,看的越多,纠正的越好。处理方面也应该高人一等了。为你自己而活,而不是为“他”人而活,爱惜自己比较重要。如果我是你啦,对于工作人士,哪RM900,我是不想去欠人的。穷也要穷的有骨气,简直把他拥有过的,算了吧。人依然往前看,失去了,再努力。爬起来,依然是可笑的自己。当年长了,回头回回忆,是多么的好笑,呵呵。加油吧。。gambateh~~

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  154. well,first of all,i would like to congrats you for being able to get away from that spoilt brat!!...and honestly this guy is really a nonsense...he should just go for transgender and be a girl... what u said is correct...girl should be love...not to be treated like this....just post his picture and everyone will share...just my 2 cents!

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  155. sent your bank account
    i pay thats bastard
    hope after that problem finish
    he never disturb u anymore

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